According to recent surveys, 44% of married couples believe that fighting more than once a week helps them to keep healthy and productive relationships for a long time. In fact, couples who argue often, but always in a peaceful manner, are more likely to stay together because, despite all the small misunderstandings, they know that their love is true and sincere. According to clinical psychologist and marriage counselor Dr. Randi Gunther, as you get used to each other and learn to basically read each other’s minds, you stop sharing ideas and explaining how you really feel about this or that. But, in fact, even if you’ve been together for several years, there will always be some things you don’t agree on. And that’s not bad at all! So, we at Bright Side learned why fighting from time to time can be good for your relationships. TIMESTAMPS: Arguing is a sign of a mature relationship 0:36 Fighting means you care 1:29 Fighting makes communication easier 2:22 Arguing is a sign of a healthy relationship 3:02 Arguments make your connection stronger 3:55 Fighting relieves your resentment 4:42 Arguing means you’re more likely to stay together 5:37 Fighting reveals your passion 6:23 Arguing saves you from boredom 7:07 Bonus 7:58 Other videos you might like: 11 Signs Your Love Will Last a Lifetime https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1hLH8ZbIIDk& 18 Types of Kisses And What They Actually Mean https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhOgl_L0srA YOUR LIFE BEFORE AND AFTER MARRIAGE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOTPeRNnBZM #happyrelationship #healthyrelationship #psychology Music by Epidemic Sound http://bit.ly/1NOjjY3 SUMMARY: - Mature people don’t resort to personal attacks, temper tantrums, or bottling it up. They instead always try to reach a compromise and improve their relationship with the help of a healthy argument. - Conflicts help you understand each other’s point of view, manage negative emotions, and make your bond stronger as you work at post-conflict peace together. - In order to create trust in your relationship, you shouldn’t keep quiet. In fact, you have to approach your partner with an open mind, take responsibility for your actions, and listen to each other carefully. - Arguing helps couples reconsider their values and feelings by addressing and discussing the things that are important to them. - When you’re arguing with your partner, it doesn’t matter if you win or lose. The most valuable thing is that you learn a lot about each other and, even more importantly, about yourself. - Not standing your ground when it comes to your values may make your partner think that they can have whatever they want, and your resentment will only grow. - Not standing your ground when it comes to your values may make your partner think that they can have whatever they want, and your resentment will only grow. - If you want to keep your relationship strong and thriving, it’s necessary to let your emotions out from time to time rather than holding them in. - Constructive conflicts may fuel the spark of your relationship and make it more exciting. Just imagine how boring your life together would be if you both always agreed on everything! Subscribe to Bright Side : https://goo.gl/rQTJZz ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Facebook: http://bit.ly/1NR4JJP Instagram: http://bit.ly/2pDikkf 5-Minute Crafts Youtube: http://bit.ly/2pNb6gr Photos: http://bit.ly/23rGg9b East News ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For more videos and articles visit: http://bit.ly/2d8ayZz
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